@RMackles tweeted to me the other day that she was planning a baby shower for men + woman and wanted to know if I had any ideas to share with her. Well, I thought the easiest place to do that would be here instead of trying to do it 140 characters at a time ;-)

This could just be me, but I’m not really wild about baby themed games (i.e. the candy bars in the diaper thing).

Especially for a couple’s shower that has men + women there. Instead, I think it would be a great opportunity to play some of the more old fashioned games that both men and women would enjoy — checkers, chess, card games, maybe even set up a little “bowling alley” or croquet on the lawn. Giving people stuff to do at get-togethers like these is important, I just don’t think your traditional diaper oriented games are the best way to go with both men and women there.

Vintage wooden checkers on Etsy

use what you have

If you’ve picked a color theme — and in this case, it’s blue and white — scavenge your whole house for items that fit. You’re sure to have some blue books or plates or paper or vases or knick-knacks. First of all, it saves you money and lessens waste. Second of all, driving a home a stylistic theme takes more than just a blue tablecloth + streamers — bringing in other elements will make it much more visually interesting.

rocking birds by west elm

This method also allows you to purchase yourself some nice, white or ivory tablecloths. If you use other elements to support your design theme, you won’t need to buy the cheap plastic pink one when the next shower is a girl.

start the decor at the door

This idea I borrowed from Tiffany Lane Handmade, who made this adorable hooray sign for an event she hosted. I think doing a little something special outside – whether it’s a bow or bunting or balloons is a great way to set a festive tone.

speaking of balloons..

I am weirdly obsessed with those awesome perfectly round balloons.

And luckily, you can get those and all the other party supplies you need at Shop Sweet Lulu. Adorable stripey straws, balloons, favor boxes, and more, all from one place!

that’s what I’ve got at the moment, @Rmackles! I hope it helps! :-)

Lastly, I thought it was a good opportunity to share this recent shower invite design I did for Fraiche Design too – a vintage farmhouse baby shower. I can’t wait to see pictures of this little event!

have a very lovely monday, friends!

  • http://vanishaslife.blogspot.com Vanisha @ Vanisha’s Life in Australia

    I love the idea of playing old fashioned games! That’s pretty original! Love it. And how awesome are those big balloons?! I love seeing them appear in editorials. And your invites are perfect for any occasion!

    • http://www.dodelinedesign.com SarahR

      Aw thanks Vanisha! I’m obsessed with those big balloons ;-) And now I want to go to a party and play checkers lol.

  • http://www.newlifeinspain.com New Life In Spain

    We don’t really have babyshowers (or bridalshowers is that what it’s called) in Norway, but I love all your suggestions :) It sounds like so much fun! And those baloons are awesome!!

    • http://www.dodelinedesign.com SarahR

      That’s so interesting that you don’t do showers in Norway – I had no idea! I love reading your blog and learning about all the differences around the world.

  • http://www.tiffanylanehandmade.wordpress.com Tiffany

    What fun ideas! I love Shop Sweet Lulu and those invites you made are adorable! Thanks for including my “Hooray” sign too :)

    • http://www.dodelinedesign.com SarahR

      You are so welcome! I love your work!

  • http://www.seastararts.com jeni

    so funny you blogged about balloons and I pinned the request to you at the same time! ha ha

    • http://www.dodelinedesign.com SarahR

      I know! We are so on the same wavelength!

  • http://www.brittcroft.com Brittani

    I am totally with you – not much for the games but your suggestions and ideas were great! And I LOVE that baby shower invite you shared at the bottom! Totally the kind of theme I’d want to go with one day down the road :) Beautiful job Sarah!

    • http://www.dodelinedesign.com SarahR

      Thanks Brittani! The baby themed games always seem so silly to me ;-) I’d much rather have it out at checkers lol!

  • http://www.why-girls-are-weird.com Krysten

    Loving your ideas, what a smartie you are!

  • http://www.aduckinherpond.com Blond Duck

    I LOVE the balloons!

    • http://www.dodelinedesign.com SarahR

      ME TOO! :-)